Wednesday, October 30, 2013

PEF and Self Reliance Missionary

The trees and bushes bloom continually and the blossoms are beautiful.


Serving a mission in the Philippines has been one of the highlights of my life. Being able to serve is a privilege. There is so much need here and I just pray that my little part may help someone's life be a little better and happier. The people are wonderful and appreciative of all that we do. The Career Workshop is a church program the helps people be more self reliant. It is very successful and often people will come back and thank us, after they get a job. We also do American Accent classes because call center jobs pay more and you can work after age 35. Many people with a college degree expect to earn about 10,000 pesos a month ($250.00). Philippino people are hardworking, industrious and always cheerful. I love the way that they always say "Good morning, M'am". 

Brother Jarius Perez has been very busy with humanitarian responsibilities, Mary Ann Balen is our very capable assistant manager, and May Mueblas and Aljane Mae Mahilom are our OJT (on the job training). They are bright, cheerful, fun and frequently burst into song. 
Our classes are very well attended. Usually a lot more non-members than members. Ponciano, a member, in the front wearing a white shirt has six children. He used to have a sea shell business that was out sourced to China. Now he would like to have a call center job. Kimmy in the middle back by Sister Keller has computer training and took the American Accent but is just home looking after her brother as her parents are working. Em the tall young man by Sister Keller was a server in a restaurant but he was quite a good imitator and did well in American Accent. Wilson is beside Sister John. When I asked him during a lesson "what is the perfect age". He said 100 years because then the government gives you some money. He worked in Saudi Arabia but would like to be home with his family now.  Life expectancy here is about 68 years. Another question that I ask is "if  I gave you 10,000 pesos what would you do with it?" They all would use it for good  eg. help fix up my families house, give it to the poor so the children wouldn't be hungry, buy a TV for my Mom because ours is broken and she liked to watch it, save it or start a business. Then I have asked "if they could talk to  an important person who would it be?" One young man said--"God, I would like to ask for more peace and less war"


Ninieta (left) really tried with the AA but had tooth pain (loose dental bridge) which gave her problems. But, when she looked at her before and after AA program videos she said "Wow, I even look prettier." Tessie (by Sister Keller) was a real fitness fanatic which is quite unusual. She loved zumba and weight lifting. But she was just wanting her children to support her.


Many times you just want to motivate them and give them some confidence and hope. That was Domo. He just seemed so much more optimistic when he finished. One of our clients in an earlier post, Efren, finally got a job. I prayed so hard for him and when he came in recently my heart sank. But, all was going well, he had a new haircut and he was just wanting to check out something for the company.

Jerome Peralta, in the blue shirt, came in to the office faithfully and really took advantage of the programs. Then yesterday he came in with a treat for us (cookies) and was so happy that he had a call center job with Ease Solutions out of Singapore. A friend recommended him (networking) and he used "Me in 30 Seconds". Neil is a nurse/caregiver. He was working in the hospital when the earthquake struck and they had to evacuate the patients down a ramp--even one from emergency with a ventilator. They had to use umbrellas outside to protect patients from the sun. He said that he was very stiff and sore the next day.


But, life for senior missionaries is also lots of fun. The Bellands (very top) and the Ernstroms (above) work in the mission office looking after the missionaries and finding housing etc. This is Ernstrom's fourth mission and we asked what motivated them to do so many- "Well, it is a little addictive. How can you just sit at home when you know the need."
Below are the Gales and this was supper at Café Georg to celebrate their anniversary.




This was kind of a different job fair. IBRO was recruiting people that wanted to sell loads for cell phones. There are Smart, Globe, and Sun cell phones here and it is all pay as you go so everyone has at least one cell phone and they need a "load" regularly.
Ponciano, Kimmy, Gad and  Jerome. The group members in our classes always seem to bond very well--doesn't seem to matter the age, sex or status. They help each other with job ideas and even go to testing and interviews together.
Rul Lim, wanted to graduate with the four above but he had to work.

Nash is older and he has 13 children. He owns property, is into real estate and teaches culinary arts classes. He took the Career Workshop and American Accent class because he was working on some project at TESDA a large technical school in the area.
Florence in the red top is a nurse, has taken culinary arts, accounting and massage therapy. She was preparing for the exam so that she could qualify to work abroad.


Ruth is a temple worker and wanted to improve her English.. May and Aljane took the class too--"wacky", of course. 
We do a Career Workshop for missionaries, every six weeks,  before they leave for home. The mission president wants these very special and talented young people to use all the skills that they have learned and be motivated, successful and able to serve.



 This was the Lapu-Lapu  leaders training. We did several of these--not sure how successful they really were.
Institute is institute where ever you go. It was a bustling street corner and the building was old on the outside but when you go up three flights and into the institute you immediately know where you are.



This "Caravan project" was to sign up students on ldsjobs and get them an LDS account.



Snacks are a motivating and important part of Philippino life

Another big class


Bishop Daclan and his youngest.

Our choir sang for "Music and the Spoken Word" at a Stake fireside. Then all the ward wanted in the picture.


The Mabolo ward primary put on the very special for the primary anniversary celebration.

 

Mabolo Relief Society



One of the requirements to leave the country, if you are there for six months, is to be finger printed. The mission decided that it was easier to bring two people from Manila than fly all the missionaries there before we return home. However it involved a lot of waiting around and during that time I got to know Elder Laureano (right). He is a musical prodigy, they tell me, and I believe it. He and the elder beside him sang a couple of songs a capella while we waited. Later we went to a missionary choir presentation he put on.  He had written some of the music and arrangements, directed and  conducted the choir and also played the piano. He earned money for his mission by teaching piano and playing in the hotels. He is from Davao on the island of Mindanao.

I learned something else--the missionaries all carry a pair of reading glasses because when they are teaching people often people can't see well enough to read the scriptures so they come in handy.

Family is very important to me and I want to be with them throughout eternity. That is why we do our family history. That is why we have temples. I am grateful for this opportunity and thankful for the encouragement and support of my family.







More of Cebu City

You can't start a post without the beautiful flowers of Cebu.
 
 
City Tour of Lapu-Lapu and Cebu
 

Lapu-Lapu was a great warior and supposedly defeated Magellan in the great battle at sea
 
While on Mactan island we went to a small business that hand makes guitars of all kinds. They use special woods and some came from Canada
 
 
 
 

 
The Toaist Temple in Cebu


 




 
This is the Basillica del Sto. Nino de Cebu. This wonderful old church was a great tourist attraction but was heavily damaged in the earthquake



 
This house was built in 1635. I can't believe that it has never been restored, is all original and all open to the elements. The windows have no glass.
Cebu Heritage Monument


 
This is inside the gated community just around the corner from our apartment. We didn't even know it was there. The guard let us in one time but after that we were not allowed.
 


They had a nice covered basketball court and a nice outdoor chapel
 

Back at our little apartment building the guard was playing dama (like checkers) with a friend
 
 
 
and our little lizard is growing

the rat that I just saw got away before I could get my camera out. It's body was at least 6 inches long


 
I can never resist children and people seem to enjoy having me take their pictures
 
 
 But, this little fellow with Grandma was a bit shy


 
This was in the middle of traffic

 This little girl was waiting with her mother for a jeepney



We go to 3rd Street Salon to get our hair cut. Jinky Rose works there and is a member of our ward. This is her little boy.

 
One day on the way to Café Georg we looked through the small window in the gate and here in the yard were animals

 
A little farther along was a beautiful display of bonsai trees--not just little house plants. You see so many interesting things when you walk.


This was along Gorordo Ave on the way to the Temple Complex --all f/or sale


 
We couldn't believe out behind the Lapu-Lapu chapel was a whole field of chickens. Each chicken was tethered by the half tire to protect it from the sun.

 
September 1st out came the Christmas, Halloween and lovely plant displays at SM (and everywhere you hear Christmas music)





 
Big chess competition at SM mall
Workers do a very good job, but work is labor intensive. This is at Castle Peak Hotel just down the street from our apartment.
 
 
I took this picture of the dog on the bike when we were walking to the mall one day.


This fellow plays wonderful music on his homemade harp

If the sidewalk is passable you have to watch your back because the motorcycles and bikes use it as a shortcut.

These balloons were quite colorful going down the street and I took the picture from the car window
 
 
Clayton, I hope that I don't need dental work

This is the office and the sign in the window

There is a tennis court on our way to church. It was particularly busy one day so we stopped to visit with the man in white and his son. The older fellow told us that he was the Cebu City champion when  Marcos was in power

 
 What do we eat?
Usually we eat oatmeal for breakfast. Our experience with cold cereal is that is isn't fresh and there isn't a lot of variety. Most people here eat rice three times a day. We ate yogurt for awhile but it wasn't great and had a lot of sugar. For lunch often peanut butter sandwich, I like mine with banana, Sister Keller has jam. We always have a lot of fruit. Quite often we have rice for supper with chicken, hamburger, pork, beans or eggs. We try fish occasionally -if it smells good and they fillet it for us. Some vegetables are very cheap and I love vegetables--cabbage, squash, camote (sweet potato). But, we also have taco soup and spaghetti.
Chocolate is very popular here
 
Chocolate read and chocolate oatmeal!!!


The mango shakes (with little chunks of mango) at Thirsty's little kiosk in the malls are just delicious. They always have nice fruit displays like the watermelon below.

 
We don't have a cook but Delia in the center cleans our apartment every week for 500 pesos
 
Rain (below center) delivers fresh fruit to the office --he is a student and this is how he earns money for school. Also, if they have a PEF loan they are required to have a part-time job. Rebecca delivers powdered milk to the office for us. I actually like powdered milk (vanilla flavor) --maybe it is all the years of drinking it.


 
The John's went home the end of August and the Mather's just arrived October 19
 
 
 
 
 The 7.2 magnitude earthquake happened Oct 15 at 8:15 in the morning. Being a holiday, we were home as were school children and a lot of other people. We had broken glass, things falling off shelves, table moving and pictures getting bumped around but nothing serious. It gave us an opportunity to meet our neighbors--a family from Thailand, two young men who are students from Russia,  Ma'm Jen (owner and manager of the building) and her family. She sent us chocolate bread after. Most of the damage was to the old churches, old schools and one hospital here is permanently damaged. The Island of Bohol is needing aid because a lot of the homes were damaged.

 This is the window in our building (FGU or Citibank building down by Ayala) There were several days that we didn't work because they would evacuate the building when there were aftershocks, also the top floors had no water and the air conditioning needed some repairs.
The church has given a lot of humanitarian aid. We helped one evening bag 1000 hygiene kits. This was being done in all the Stake buildings. Sunday was a bigger project and we did food bags.




Three truck loads went out Sunday after our session
 
 
 
 
The sun always rises on another beautiful day!